Victimhood - a definition: a persistent belief that one is constantly or unfairly targeted, abused or discriminated against, often with a tendency to blame external factors or others, while avoiding personal responsibility.
In this video I talk about…
How we are true victims as children when growing up in challenging or abusive circumstances, over which we have no power.
Why people refuse to heal from their past and what dysfunctional power they gain from this. ‘Poor me syndrome’.
How when we remain as victims we do not have to take responsibility for our own life, behaviour and choices.
Victims and the ‘blame game’ - ‘you did this to me…’
Woundology - using our emotional wounds as currency to buy us attention and ‘love’ (Caroline Myss).
How victims refuse to let go of the person/people who hurt them by blowing up their own life. ‘Look at what you have cost meeeee!”
‘Failure’ in life as an act of defiance.
Victimhood links with entitlement and control.
Energetic attachment to those who have hurt us.
Post menopausal memory - a different kind of forgetting…..
What happened to us in childhood is not our responsibility,
but what we do to heal from it is.
Photo by London Branding Photos The Bridge Book- a nine step plan to healing your trauma, accepting yourself and living life to the full. #justsaying
“Powerful, brilliant and deeply healing.” Fearne Cotton
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