Oh I resonate with so much of this! Especially the piece about how the symptoms settle when you start to hear your inner voice and honour your inner No. I am somewhere in the middle of this transformation. Tired, antisocial, sometimes grouchy, but also excited to meet myself in a different way to my younger people-pleasing self. Thank you for articulating this so beautifully, I love it ❤️
Thank you so much for this Donna, it all makes so much sense. I’m in a portal and I feel like I’m unravelling. It’s scary and lonely at times. Shedding and letting go of the things that I no longer need can leave an open space of unknown, as well as opportunity. It’s bloody hard at times but reading this and how others identify, I suddenly feel less alone and hope is found once again🙏🏻💚
Loved reading this- so beautifully poetic and vital information- like a ‘How to’ navigation of these inevitable stages, all in such a compact and wise flow of truth. Thank you Donna 💙 Sharing for anyone in the comments that is entering peri or meno - It’s so important to listen to your body and find sources of wisdom, knowledge and your people as you go through these portals. It’s a long journey! I hadn’t yet found trust in myself and had other stuff going on- was labelled MADD by the GP (Mixed Anxiety & Depressive Disorder) and coerced (easily coz I was desperate) to try medications to ease and cure. Long story short- it was hell. They double dosed me. Double hell. Everything protested because surrender was not in my vocabulary and did not feel remotely safe! Thankfully (very grateful) I attended some of Donna’s workshops over these years and have grown to trust and love me big. Do diving healing and personal growth. I even relocated too and now I’m a few footsteps from the 🌊 I’ve found my people - gathering OTP on the pebbles and ITS in the sea. We swim, talk, giggle , growl, scream, roar, dance, cry, hug, drink tea in community and solitude, wave watch, soak in beauty, shiver with no f**** in the winter of boobs or bum exposed in the rush to put on the layers and the hot water bottle 💙 It’s OK to say no to medical professionals, or push persistently for what you know you need. It’s OK to take your time. It’s OK to not be OK. I continue to learn to dive through the portals, with curiosity and courage 💙🧜🏼♀️
Oh, Donna! I am 80 years old and this is The very most beautiful post I have ever read on meeting yourself in post-menopausal years. Welcome, welcome. Everything you've said is true and so many more gifts are in store. Dance onward....
Gosh I need to read this today.... I resonate with so much of your words. I find it really hard to articulate my self so sometimes shy away from long comments! Ha ha just deleted long comment! Thank you 🙏 this was not the place for my words today xx
Oh my. Every. Word. The more I learn to listen to myself, the less I have to raise my voice. And I’ve learned that when I feel unseen and unheard (which is not uncommon as a single mum to 3 teenagers!) I now know it’s because I’m not seeing and hearing myself. This is such a beautiful description of our transition into womanhood.. thank you
All of this resonated and I have experienced so much of what you described. Beautifully done. And I, too, am finding this side of the portal magical. Thank you.
Oh I resonate with so much of this! Especially the piece about how the symptoms settle when you start to hear your inner voice and honour your inner No. I am somewhere in the middle of this transformation. Tired, antisocial, sometimes grouchy, but also excited to meet myself in a different way to my younger people-pleasing self. Thank you for articulating this so beautifully, I love it ❤️
Thank you xxx
Thank you so much for this Donna, it all makes so much sense. I’m in a portal and I feel like I’m unravelling. It’s scary and lonely at times. Shedding and letting go of the things that I no longer need can leave an open space of unknown, as well as opportunity. It’s bloody hard at times but reading this and how others identify, I suddenly feel less alone and hope is found once again🙏🏻💚
I feel the same and reading this tells me we are not alone.
Loved reading this- so beautifully poetic and vital information- like a ‘How to’ navigation of these inevitable stages, all in such a compact and wise flow of truth. Thank you Donna 💙 Sharing for anyone in the comments that is entering peri or meno - It’s so important to listen to your body and find sources of wisdom, knowledge and your people as you go through these portals. It’s a long journey! I hadn’t yet found trust in myself and had other stuff going on- was labelled MADD by the GP (Mixed Anxiety & Depressive Disorder) and coerced (easily coz I was desperate) to try medications to ease and cure. Long story short- it was hell. They double dosed me. Double hell. Everything protested because surrender was not in my vocabulary and did not feel remotely safe! Thankfully (very grateful) I attended some of Donna’s workshops over these years and have grown to trust and love me big. Do diving healing and personal growth. I even relocated too and now I’m a few footsteps from the 🌊 I’ve found my people - gathering OTP on the pebbles and ITS in the sea. We swim, talk, giggle , growl, scream, roar, dance, cry, hug, drink tea in community and solitude, wave watch, soak in beauty, shiver with no f**** in the winter of boobs or bum exposed in the rush to put on the layers and the hot water bottle 💙 It’s OK to say no to medical professionals, or push persistently for what you know you need. It’s OK to take your time. It’s OK to not be OK. I continue to learn to dive through the portals, with curiosity and courage 💙🧜🏼♀️
beautiful Lina. Thank you for these words and I love the imagery of you all by the sea. Mermaids belong together. Loving you xxx
*Deep diving healing (not do)🤣
Oh, Donna! I am 80 years old and this is The very most beautiful post I have ever read on meeting yourself in post-menopausal years. Welcome, welcome. Everything you've said is true and so many more gifts are in store. Dance onward....
How wonderful to have you in this community thank you 🙏
Beautifully written! So much here that feels like the unspoken truth of the blossoming of this time of life!
Gosh I need to read this today.... I resonate with so much of your words. I find it really hard to articulate my self so sometimes shy away from long comments! Ha ha just deleted long comment! Thank you 🙏 this was not the place for my words today xx
Reading this has given me the best start to my day. Thank you!
....and your words have made my day. Thank you xx
I'm still crawling but this gives me hope there is another side.
there is. I promise xxx
Oh my. Every. Word. The more I learn to listen to myself, the less I have to raise my voice. And I’ve learned that when I feel unseen and unheard (which is not uncommon as a single mum to 3 teenagers!) I now know it’s because I’m not seeing and hearing myself. This is such a beautiful description of our transition into womanhood.. thank you
Love this- thank you so much.
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All of this resonated and I have experienced so much of what you described. Beautifully done. And I, too, am finding this side of the portal magical. Thank you.
Such beautiful words Donna, thank you 🙏 🤩💖
Beautiful, Donna. Thank you! ❤️🙏
This resonates so much Donna, as ever thankyou 🙏❤️